Loss of Motivation
Problems:
I want to consult. I've been often confide to friends about my problems, but to no avail. I'm confused, why as if life is not fair.
I am frustrated by the failure to achieve the target of 4-year college that caused my parents disappointed hopes disappear. And I'm sure if I could be in the lesson, but why do I feel as though I will be inhibited so that all of what I try so far in vain. I really fall now. I do not know what to ask for help to anyone else to restore my motivation has been lost. Hopefully this answers a bit later can enlighten me. Thank you.
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Answer:
Failure is something that is painful and every person must have felt a failure although with different levels. Even many around us - without us knowing - those that have failed to higher levels than thought
What we must understand is how we respond to this failure. Since you consider the severity of the problem, you feel that being "dogged unbroken unfortunate", and eventually become apathetic and demoralized. You also end up confused as to solve the problem. Actually, apathy and confusion not have to happen if you can still think clearly. Usually, the problem becomes heavy and confused to solve it because we can not separate yourself from the problem and too emotionally involved.
But if you try to "keep a distance" from the problems and controlling your emotions, problems will be more easy to find a solution. By thinking clearly, you can break down the problem better. You can more easily find the root cause of the problem. And that's the root cause then you try to find a solution.
Therefore, do not consider weight problems facing so you can keep the spirit of optimism and resolve. That you still able to think clearly to find a solution.
Think of failure as a way to achieve success.
Indeed, in fact the more you fail, the more we know how to get success. Conversely, people who never failed also will never know how to achieve success. This is what you should keep in mind so as not to be disappointed with the failure. If you fail, throw away those thoughts did not dare try it again. Instead you have to be motivated to try again because you are actually getting closer to success.
A strange thing if you are discouraged by failure.
Failure is only painful at first, but after that it contains a lot of wisdom. You'll know more about how to achieve success. Failure as a way to achieve success is not the words that filled rhetoric, but it's been proven to be true by many successful people. One such example, the Prophet Muhammad, Thomas Alva Edison, Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Jack Canfield (author of Chicken's Soup series), Billi PS. Lim (author of "Dare to Fail"), and others.
If you believe that failure is not failing in the real sense, but "conditions" for success, then you will never be pessimistic about the failure. Instead you will increase the spirit of failure. Even if you have experienced failure more and more, great growing your spirit to try again. Because you are sure that soon you will achieve success.
Satria Hadi Lubis
Sources: EraMuslim
Problems:
I want to consult. I've been often confide to friends about my problems, but to no avail. I'm confused, why as if life is not fair.
I am frustrated by the failure to achieve the target of 4-year college that caused my parents disappointed hopes disappear. And I'm sure if I could be in the lesson, but why do I feel as though I will be inhibited so that all of what I try so far in vain. I really fall now. I do not know what to ask for help to anyone else to restore my motivation has been lost. Hopefully this answers a bit later can enlighten me. Thank you.
***************
Answer:
Failure is something that is painful and every person must have felt a failure although with different levels. Even many around us - without us knowing - those that have failed to higher levels than thought
What we must understand is how we respond to this failure. Since you consider the severity of the problem, you feel that being "dogged unbroken unfortunate", and eventually become apathetic and demoralized. You also end up confused as to solve the problem. Actually, apathy and confusion not have to happen if you can still think clearly. Usually, the problem becomes heavy and confused to solve it because we can not separate yourself from the problem and too emotionally involved.
But if you try to "keep a distance" from the problems and controlling your emotions, problems will be more easy to find a solution. By thinking clearly, you can break down the problem better. You can more easily find the root cause of the problem. And that's the root cause then you try to find a solution.
Therefore, do not consider weight problems facing so you can keep the spirit of optimism and resolve. That you still able to think clearly to find a solution.
Think of failure as a way to achieve success.
Indeed, in fact the more you fail, the more we know how to get success. Conversely, people who never failed also will never know how to achieve success. This is what you should keep in mind so as not to be disappointed with the failure. If you fail, throw away those thoughts did not dare try it again. Instead you have to be motivated to try again because you are actually getting closer to success.
A strange thing if you are discouraged by failure.
Failure is only painful at first, but after that it contains a lot of wisdom. You'll know more about how to achieve success. Failure as a way to achieve success is not the words that filled rhetoric, but it's been proven to be true by many successful people. One such example, the Prophet Muhammad, Thomas Alva Edison, Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Jack Canfield (author of Chicken's Soup series), Billi PS. Lim (author of "Dare to Fail"), and others.
If you believe that failure is not failing in the real sense, but "conditions" for success, then you will never be pessimistic about the failure. Instead you will increase the spirit of failure. Even if you have experienced failure more and more, great growing your spirit to try again. Because you are sure that soon you will achieve success.
Satria Hadi Lubis
Sources: EraMuslim
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