Deal Desire Husband
Problems:
Assalamu Wr Wb,
I am a housewife who has been married four years. Lately my husband diligently follow recitation. He also began to change. He also became a problem was always firmly in Islam, such as requiring women to wear the hijab socks and wide, which essentially should cover all genitalia. I became a bit depressed with this requirement.
Actually I'm used to the veil. But wearing socks and a big scarf, make my family accept less. The reason, they are afraid of people looking at me the extreme. But for the sake of obeying husbands, little by little I try to wear it until it got used.
But I am a bit uncomfortable with scorn from the outside and from my family. According to Aa, do I have to obey the wishes of their husbands or parents? How good is that?
Regards,
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Answer:
Wa'alaikumussalam Wr Wb,
One key to living comfortably is to have knowledge. Ideally, she should not labor for their husbands, but labor for the foundation of science. Science is we get to learn a lot, get through books, radio, sermons, television, etc.. When you know the science, the charity that we do will be more reassuring. Any decisions would be more appropriate.
Obedience to the husband is obligatory, while not deviating from the rules of religion. What was ordered husband to Mrs. cover nakedness, God willing, kind and according to the rules of religion. The problem, perhaps the mode of delivery and the mother was unwise not understand the rule. Suggestions Aa, multiply establish communication with her husband. After that help parents to understand. This is where the importance of preaching and establish relationship.
Middle road is how Mom can close the genitals as well without anyone else suspicious. The most important first meet veiled terms, such as not strict, not transparent, and cover all parts of the body, except the face and palms. The model can be adapted to the conditions of the surrounding community. Allah knows best.
KH Abdullah Gymnastiar
Source: Republika Online
Problems:
Assalamu Wr Wb,
I am a housewife who has been married four years. Lately my husband diligently follow recitation. He also began to change. He also became a problem was always firmly in Islam, such as requiring women to wear the hijab socks and wide, which essentially should cover all genitalia. I became a bit depressed with this requirement.
Actually I'm used to the veil. But wearing socks and a big scarf, make my family accept less. The reason, they are afraid of people looking at me the extreme. But for the sake of obeying husbands, little by little I try to wear it until it got used.
But I am a bit uncomfortable with scorn from the outside and from my family. According to Aa, do I have to obey the wishes of their husbands or parents? How good is that?
Regards,
***************
Answer:
Wa'alaikumussalam Wr Wb,
One key to living comfortably is to have knowledge. Ideally, she should not labor for their husbands, but labor for the foundation of science. Science is we get to learn a lot, get through books, radio, sermons, television, etc.. When you know the science, the charity that we do will be more reassuring. Any decisions would be more appropriate.
Obedience to the husband is obligatory, while not deviating from the rules of religion. What was ordered husband to Mrs. cover nakedness, God willing, kind and according to the rules of religion. The problem, perhaps the mode of delivery and the mother was unwise not understand the rule. Suggestions Aa, multiply establish communication with her husband. After that help parents to understand. This is where the importance of preaching and establish relationship.
Middle road is how Mom can close the genitals as well without anyone else suspicious. The most important first meet veiled terms, such as not strict, not transparent, and cover all parts of the body, except the face and palms. The model can be adapted to the conditions of the surrounding community. Allah knows best.
KH Abdullah Gymnastiar
Source: Republika Online
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